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13 03, 2019

Can marriage be better the second time around?

March 13th, 2019|Uncategorized|0 Comments

In a society that has almost the same amount of divorces in a year as marriages, can marriage the second time around be a good thing? Growing up, I believed in the institution of marriage. The union of two people bound in matrimony for the rest of their lives together. I was aware of divorce [...]

21 01, 2019

They shoot single people don’t they…

January 21st, 2019|Uncategorized|1 Comment

So here you are, sitting all dressed up dripping in that finesse living your best life and someone asks, “But how can someone like you still be single?” I’ve been a victim of this and so many others, so I decided to do some research (all Google of course) and tried to understand this from [...]

16 04, 2018

Don’t change the game. BE the game changer

April 16th, 2018|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Humans are art. All humans hold beauty inside them. Sometimes we are lucky enough to call these humans our friends. Humility, ambition and dire strength. The trifecta of a powerful woman. I had the opportunity to make new friends and meet new people from all walks of life and was blessed to meet this beautiful [...]

16 09, 2017

Always leave a lasting impression

September 16th, 2017|Uncategorized|4 Comments

We live in a world where smartphones have saturated modern life. The reality is that we are transitioning from a world of physical interaction to that of a virtual one. Interpersonal interaction is slowly becoming redundant. Iphones, Ipads, laptops and the cloud have a brilliant way of linking people together from various parts of the [...]

17 07, 2017

Interracial Relationships

July 17th, 2017|Uncategorized|10 Comments

“Love doesn’t see the colour of your skin, but through the pigment of your heart.” 23 Years into democracy and yet our interracial couples still face discrimination. The millennial age teaches us how to be more modern, more savvy,  more open to ideas and to be brave to try new things, yet we’re still stuck [...]

18 06, 2017

Putting the “Self” in SELFISH

June 18th, 2017|Uncategorized|4 Comments

Putting the “Self” in “SELFISH” After taking an unintentional hiatus from my blog, I am back to writing and slowly starting to feel like myself again. I am 100% guilty and admit that for the past few weeks I have allowed my work demands to engulf my life. Working longer hours than ever before and [...]

6 04, 2017

Commitment phobia continued…

April 6th, 2017|Uncategorized|16 Comments

Commitment phobia part 2... Last week I sparked a bit of controversy (mostly within myself ) about this looming issue of commitment phobia. Am I afraid of compromising my space,time,love for all things me? Without even realising it? So I took the time to educate myself on the subject which allowed me to identify myself [...]

27 03, 2017

Are YOU a commitment phobe?

March 27th, 2017|Uncategorized|6 Comments

  There has to be something more to this trend of “side-chicks, friends with benefits, main squeeze” all terms used to describe short-term non-committal relationships. To put it in terms of modern day social culture, we are living in the times of the “Situationship”. A situationship is a pseudo-relationship. There is no label to this [...]

27 02, 2017

Social Media Vs Self-Esteem

February 27th, 2017|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Social Media Vs Self-Esteem A decade ago, if a provocative picture of a woman would surface on the internet, it was humiliating and shameful. In today’s digital age, this would be rewarded with “likes”, comments and additional friend requests. We equate this attention received with approval of self-worth. Social media sites are notorious in affecting [...]

15 02, 2017

Can emotional manipulation be the modern day voodoo of the mind?

February 15th, 2017|Uncategorized|2 Comments

Can emotional manipulation be the modern day voodoo of the mind?   The ancient practice of voodoo or witchcraft describes a ritual that practices the intention of negatively affecting someone’s life, without his or her consent or knowledge of the act. Emotional manipulation may not be a ritual or cultural act, but may hold similar [...]